The same bed time?
Do you go to bed at the same time as your spouse? I am a morning person and my DH is a night person. I remember being shocked when we first got married that he didn’t want to go to bed with me at 10pm! I’m so over that now! I fall asleep at the drop of a hat and he has to wind down, watch something on tv in our room (doesn’t keep me up at all) or try to read. He usually nods off around 12:30 or 1am. There are times when we go through cycles where I will stay up later, he will stay up later, or we go to bed together. Currently I’m the one going to bed several hours before he does. When we do go to bed at the same time it seems like it is the only time we can be together and carry on a conversation without being interrupted every 30 seconds.